i am scared our friendship will fall apart cause we don't have any classes together. we have known each other for alwhile, startin our 4th year of friendship.
1. were u ever in the same sitution?
2. did u stay friends?
3. what are some ways we can still hang out at school (i am tryin to see if they will let us have lockers close to each other)?
Answers:
1. yes
2. yes
3. hang out at lunch/ nutrition
one of my best friends and i have known each other for about 12 years, but in the 10 years of going to the same school... we've had ONE class together.
point being: dont worry about not having classes with your best friend. that should NOT be what pulls you apart.
and dont worry about high school. just be yourself and you should make new friends easily. =].
you have to realize that things like this are not important! just make new friends and keep the old and go with the flow
always good to make new friends
Just realize that you are at school to learn. You have time for friends after school. Also, I am past college now and I don't keep in contact with ANYONE from high school. Most of my friends were from college. Just realize that that there is life after high school, and go forth and prepare for college! :)
make new friend but keep the old, one is silver and the others gold. the circle of life it has no end that how long I want to be your friend.
Try joining a club or a sport together. Maybe next semester you will have classes together. If a friendship is meant to be, it will last time and distance. My bf and I are 800 miles apart and we still love each other and talk and visit. Good luck
me and my bff haven't went to high school yet but we are aug 27th and we were best friends since fourth grade too ~ however we stopped talking when I took different classes from her in school and though we still talk online and stuff its not the same ~
Advice: If your friendship does fall aprt then just know that things change, they always change and accept it without being bitter
More Advice: Make other friends for backup so if you do lose your bf you'll still have ppl to go to lunch with ^^
Even More Advice: Every friendship changes no matter what and just remember it took something big like high school for your friendship to have an extreme change or downfall
Good Luck and Best of Wishes:)
It is unlikely that you will be placed in the same classes as your best friend, so don't rely on that to get you through high school. Besides, getting to know other people may help you improve your social skills.
My best friend and I have been friends for nearly 7 years despite the fact that we are hardly ever placed in the same class. You and your friend are not bound together by your teachers and classmates, but by common interests and trust.
You can join clubs or organizations on and off campus or do community service work together. There are a lot of social opportunities in high school (dances, football games, etc).
You can enroll in a course that has only one class, like yearbook or newspaper. If the school won't put you together, use that brute-force method :)
Or simply eat lunch together. That's what worked for me.
Best of luck.
Don't worry about it. It may seem scary at first, but you'll get through it (and probably with some new friends, too).
When I started high school, I was worried because I didn't have any or many friends in my classes. My first class, I only had two former classmates that I semi got along with, but not anyone I would actually call a friend. I kind of stuck to them that class. The next class I went to, I recognized a girl from my previous class, and we said something like 'Hey, we have two of the same classes!' and we sat together. We've been good friends ever since.
My best friend... I don't think we've had a class together for about 3-4 years, and we've been friends since we were about 6 (11 years ago). We're still really good friends. We've kind of grown apart a little, but that's part of growing up and partly my fault. But we're still very close.
Meet together at lunch, or if your classes are close to each other or you pass each other in the hallways at all, you can see her briefly then. But remember, don't be late for class just because you were talking with a friend! Big no-no.
I wasn't really a people person going into the new school, and I didn't really want to make any new friends since I liked the ones I had well enough. I ended up making friends anyways. Actually, I reached out to make two new friends, and I believe the rest of my new friends are all friends of theirs. You can make many friends by association. It's kind of fun!
Good luck :)
Not having classes together could really be a good thing. First of all, you won't be together a whole lot at school so you won't get on each others nerves or start drama or anything. And with different classes, you guys will have endless things to talk about, because your friend has no clue what happened in a class you have. You won't soon run out of things to talk about. Being without your friend kinda forces you to make new friends, which is always a good thing.
If it will help you see if you can switch a class to get one of hers. I entered 9th grade with a good friend (kinda like best friend at the time) and we had 2 classes together 1st semester and we were kinda close but she made a whole bunch of new friends so when we would hang out it would be us and a bunch of people and she was more involved with the other people because of the influence they had on her. She would strip her shirt off and flash people for this junior boys amusement and it was disgusting so I was kinda glad we didn't talk a whole lot that year. The next year we had 2 classes together and we were quite close again, we had lots of fun in Math together. This last year we had NOTHING together all year and we barely talk now days but we still are friends. But all the friends she made that year became my friends so I have a bunch of newer friends thanks to her. People do change and chances are she will make new friends but when you guys do talk in school you will also get to make friends with the new people. People do change and in high school people tend to change a lot, some for the better some for the worst. I have friends who went down both paths but in the end it will be ok.
Oh btw don't try to get a locker by her because you only get a few minutes in between class, you won't see her enough to talk, and they assign lockers before schools even started.
It's not a big deal. You're gonna have to meet new people and make new friends, anyway. Also, if you see too much of each other, you might get tired of one another and there's a bigger possibilty of getting into arguements.
1. I was in the same situation except my best friend and I don't even go to the same school. I just decided to get up the courage and talk to the people in my classes.
2. It's been over two years and we are still friends, but this doesn't mean it'll necessarily be true for you.
3. Do you at least have lunch together? You could always hang out after school, during breaks (if you have any), weekends, school events, and just take whatever lockers are free if they don't let you have lockers close to each other.
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