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well im moving to a new school...i dont know ANYONE and im scared nervous..im an outgoing girl but at the same time im really shy idk what to do!! please help me!!
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ok, i was in your situation a few years ago. first, relax.
when you walk into your classroom, as hard as it may seem, go up to someone that looks friendly, and introduce yourself. DO NOT LET THE TEACHER INTRODUCE YOU! I made that mistake and it took a little longer to meet everyone that it would have if i would have just introduced myself. ok, once you have meet some people, branch off from them. meet their friends. seriously. if you are friendly and don't come off as scared or nervous, you will make so many new friends. good luck! and have fun!!
just try to blend in... at tim u will hav friends... jsut try n talk to some ppl
at lunch just go up to sum girls that look nice and ask if u can sit with them if they say yes sit and youll probely be friends if they say no there jerks and then try some other girls. good luck!
You should really just be yourself. Be friendly toward everyone. Talk to people who are in class with you, or pick a random lunch table to sit at. You'll make friends in no time.
is there anything you've always wanted to learn to do --karate, ballet, music lessons that you could take? you could have fun and meet new people at the same time.
other than that, it's just hard and it'll take time. hang in there.
Don't be scared! Remember you're probably not the only one that is going to be new there! Make sure if someone says hi you say it back...or people will right away think you're a snob. On the first day I would introduce myself to the girls who seem to be quieter and not surrounded by everyone else. You might get yourself labelled if you try and zone in on the "popular" girls on the first day, unless they talk to you first! Make sure to introduce yourself to your locker neighbors for sure! Answer any questions they may have. That's all I can think of! Oh yeah! Make sure to eat a breath mint right before you go in.just to be sure your breath is minty fresh! Good luck sweetie, I feel for you.but it will get better in no time, you'll see!
don't get caught up in what other kids are like. Just be your freaking self and join a sport or club where you can connect with others like you. Also, ignore the presence of other male students you might have a crush on. I mean i always get way over my head when it comes to being seduced by gorgeous females with large packages and often delicious goodies.
Simply MAKE IT A POINT to become "Personable."
Find ANY other person / group on campus who has a similar values as yours. Start off with something insignificant, like a type of clothes (shoes /socks / same color or fashion you are wearing) and make that as a "connectible reason" to chat with them.
Just BE VERY CAREFUL to avoid seeming "shallow" with your personality. - Make your ideas original. Start off small and aim for BIGGER "values" - ESPECIALLY during this critical point in your life.
Aim to BE YOURSELF. That is your best ally.
CONGRATULATIONS! - You are only beginning a life-long of adventurous-learning.
Calm down, Remember most of the other kids feel the same way you do. Just relax, go to your class, relax some more, you will get through it. Both my kids are starting at new schools tomorrow too! So don't feel like you are all alone in how you feel. It will be ok.
At lunch try talking to someone or at the end of class talk to someone.
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