(im a freshman)
& i hate it sooo much so far...
i havent met any new friends
& i walk to class alone,
cuz my friends have different classes.
so my questions are:
-how can i meet new people?
-how do i bring up a conversation?
-how can i find someone to walk with?
i also want to find a boyfriend, so if u help me,
that would be great!
Answers:
starting highschool is stuff, but it will get better, i promise.
Smile, don't let anyone see you with your head down or looking sad, because they'll think your a sad person. No one likes a sad person. Approach people that you think might share common interests with you. And i know this sounds cliche, but be yourself. If you pretend to be someone your not, it will come back to bite you in the end.
Give it time, your friends will multiply as you meet new friends through new friends. Good luck.
look pretty/cute/hot
say like Hey nice to meet you or something and say your name and you know it will go on from there
i was a fresh men last year it was fun ^^ it'll get better
You just have to put yourself out there. If you take the initiative to be more outgoing and try to show that your looking to make new friends.they will come. Put yourself out there (make the first move like asking to sit with new people at lunch or talk to the people that sit next to you in your classes) It's only your second day. You can't worry yet. Don't worry you'll be fine.
Tell yourself that you have nothing to lose. Whats the worst that can happen. Nothing.
Just be yourself, treat people with respect, maybe start saying hi. Get to know people, PE/Gym class is the best place to get to know people. Run with somebody.
Just tell youself that if something goes wrong, its not the end of the world.
Highschool is a time to have fun, Dont stress it.
Just do it!
Ok, sometimes that's not the best help. DD was a freshman last year, and new to the state as well, so she didn't even know any one in the state, so I'll tell you what she did.
Talk to whomever you sit nearest to at lunch.
Talk to whomever you sit to on the bus.
Give random hugs to random (strange) people. It really does help break the ice.
Share a complaint about a teacher, an assignment, whatever with someone who looks like they will agree with you.
Commit a random act of kindness.
pay attention to the people in you classes. you are bound to find some that have other classes with you. start with "hi my name is ." you meet people in those classes. you will end up getting to know the people who sit right next to you. you will have class projects with other students which will also help you. bring up conversation... compliment on outfit and ask where they got it n go from there. as for boyfriend just be yourself and confident they should come to you.
It's my second week of college and I havn't made any new friends all my friends go to different schools now but its ok. You will make friends you have only gave it two days.
Be yourself, sit by interesting people, and start up a conversation with someone you think looks friendly to meet new people.
Bring up a conversation by what you see, or doing group work talk and be yourself conversation will just flow.
Walking with someone often makes you late, but look for people who have the same class as you twice in a row. or something close, talk to them then walk to classes with them.
Boyfriend, you have more than enough time for that! Around dances is when most people get them. I had two firends who didn't have bf's the whole time in highschool but its fine because, you flirt so much more when you are single.
yeah high school is ruff, im in 11th grade and my first week was actually HORRIBLE but i decided it could be worse and you have to make the best of all your situations, so what i did was in every class i just talked to someone new, u just have to start conversation, and i know that sounds hard and i totally understand because im extremlly shy!! but i just bring up a conversation about anything, ask them stuff like how there year is going and before you know it u have a conversation going that u can both talk about, in one of my classes i had a new girl that i had never seen so i asked if she was new and just asked her things like where shes from and if she likes it here and before u know it u have a new friend!! and as of a boyfriend u pretty much do the same thing but talk to guys, meet some new ones! high school has been some of the best years for me because i got over being so shy around people and i meet sooo many new people that i have became so close with but yet i still keep my close friends from middle school!! It will get better, u just have to give it a try!! hope this helped!
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