also, do they have to know that you don't like them anymore
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by not speaking to her, you have it pretty much covered. you will encounter persons who don't get it, even when it is obvious. they will have to be told in words and in person.
I would guess it would be better to tell them. You didn't give much info but it sounds like maybe that person may still think your friends. Sounds like a sad situation. But why don't you want to remain friends. What have they done to make you not like them?? I would say sounds like you should tell them.
Be honest with her ! Tell her that you have moved on and that if she would like you can still be friends .
The longer you put it off the more it will hurt her and the harder it will be for you to tell her .
So be honest with her and yourself . It may hurt her , but believe me , time heals all wounds .
Good luck !
I dont think she will be that bothered about it afterall your not talking to her she probably already knows. On the other hand if you really want to make a stance tell her face to face but its better to keep her as a friend than an enemy. I have many friends some i dont like for what they do or what they have done to me or to other people, and they know cos i told them,but thats their business and they have to live with it.
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well if you dont speak to them how can they b part of your life?? i don't get that!! anyway some things are better left unsaid, the only way that u would have to tell them is if they tried to come on and in that case you just tell them gently that you dont want to hurt their feelings but you only want to be friends!! its up to them how they deal with that!!
If you are not speaking to her then she is not part of your life. I think she will probably have got the message by now. If you have moved on then why do you still feel the need to tell her anything.
Hiya mate, My eldest son had a similar experience whilst attending college, this is the way he dealt with it. Make a conscious effort to be civil to this girl when you see her, by that I mean if she speaks to you. Don't give her too much info regarding your welfare, act like your meeting her for the first time. Keep away from places you know she hangs out. Focus on your studies. As frustrating as it may seem at the moment with your present state of play, your continual indifference towards her will reap its own rewards when she gives up trying to piss you off and sees its having no effect. Your initial question was a little contradictory because you say that you've moved on yet you still have her in your life. Adopt this new possitive approach and make a difference to your life. Finally, you do not feel obliged to tell her you've moved on, you do not owe her that. My son successfully completed his college graduation and is enjoying a new career in computers.
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