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it's what you make of I guess you could try a thesaurus they have lots of words for describing the word obscene it's something that is displayed in public that is too graphic for anyone to see. 1.Offensive to accepted standards of decency or modesty.
2.Inciting lustful feelings; lewd.
3.Repulsive; disgusting: eg. The way he writes about the disease that killed her is simply obscene” (Michael Korda).
4.So large in amount as to be objectionable or outrageous: eg. local merchants in nearby stores get hammered by stratospheric rents and obscene taxes” (Joe Queenan). The dictionary defines it as:-
ob·scen·i·ty ( P ) Pronunciation Key (b-sn-t, b-)
n. pl. ob·scen·i·ties
The state or quality of being obscene.
Indecency, lewdness, or offensiveness in behavior, expression, or appearance.
Something, such as a word, act, or expression, that is indecent or lewd.
Something that is offensive or repulsive to the senses: “What had once been a gentle hill covered with lush grass turned into a brown obscenity of bare earth and smoke” (Tom Clancy).
But alas in most cases you need to see it, or read, or hear, to know. Most cases it's probably best to air on the side of caution. BUT most of the time as long as you have big warning of the content of a website, post on a group etc. (The are you over 18 click button things) and such, it a good idea. A chance, and warning for the reader/viewer to realise it isn't something they want to see. If you go to websites like What was first there, the chuck or the egg?